Impact Of A Soul To A Soul From A Soul

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Thursday, May 29, 2008

School Uniform Is NOT the Reason

Posted by: Fahmi05

As a teacher, I have to disagree with the statement on the school uniforms being the cause for immoral acts of boys.  UTTER NONSENSE!!! 

Look around you and examine the current social situation in our country.  How the girls dress outside school hours is umpteen times more sexy and revealing than their school uniform.  In fact, when I was in school we were still wearing pinafore (which are actually less revealing than the baju kurung.  The baju kurung was only making its appearence as a school uniform then.  From then until now, it had never been made into an issue.  This is because it is a NON-issue.

BE REALISTIC!!!  Students as young as the age of 8 years old are exposed to all sorts of pornographic material (a fact garnered by primary school teachers), students are influenced by indecent way of dressing particularly from our eastern neighbours (don’t only blame the west for all ill in the nation), and many other woes of the youth today have nothing to do with schools.

Another thing to consider is the moral values of the men / boys said to have turned rapists.  One thing I realise is that the majority of the so-called offenders are MALAYS (I’m a Malay myself but I don’t blind myself to realities of life).  These people do not have strong religious grounding or do not practise the religion as they should.  Why?  It goes back to the family background.  As do most discipline problems in school.  It goes back to their upbringing although we teachers bear the brunt of societies wrath at these students. 

People question what teachers do at school that they cannot mould the students.  GO BACK AND ASK THE PARENTS WHAT THEY HAD BEEN DOING DURING THEIR CHILDREN’S FORMATIVE YEARS (between the ages of 2 and 5 or 6) when most values are instilled.  DON’T blame teachers!!!

What I can say is, well said and totally agreed. What is all this nonsense about school uniform lah, teachers don’t know how to teach lah and all these crap. If you tell me school uniform is the cause then the whole country is full of young rapist, or maybe you are just trying to say that if you go around raping people in school uniform, then you can sue these girls for wearing school uniforms and while you go scot free and continue your raping spree.

Another point that I like which was this writer brought up is family education. What the hell are you concerned about discipline when you freaking let your own child climb all over you, step you on the head and shit in your face. You make up excuses to not teach your child and when teachers do you a big favour by teaching them respect and all other values a human should have… you go and sue them stating they are some lunatic for slapping or caning their child. Another big utter nonsense.

If they were so precious then why not hire your own tutor from overseas or even oxford to teach them. I have been through my years with caning and even public caning which has shaped me and all the people around me. Even those that we top notch thugs in school has become useful souls in the society, but look at what is happening now. Parents sue teachers for disciplining them, child sues parents for slapping them and in the end there are more useless than the worst thugs back then.

Next time think again when you intend to spare the rod… or complaint about a teacher. Think what have you done to not create your own monster than what other have done to your monster. Of coz there are those that still holds the invaluable values that should be instilled in everyone and those are the respected ones.

Big standing ovation for this teacher!!!

Another thing that annoyed me very recently is the petrol price. I’m not talking about the freaking 78 cents rise but the people that queued like hours just waiting for petrol and also those who drive from Kedah to Kelantan just to fill a tank of petrol.

I’m not saying saving is not good, but look at it, the amount of petrol and time you waste while waiting to fill a tank does not justify. You waste time and skipped meals which damage your own body. Your car emits hazardous gas and stuff that endangers everyone in the world. All that for may be RM 56 if you have a 70 liter tank like mine.

The worst is you caused a freaking jam right at the exit of my housing area and almost caused me to be late for my midnight work!!! And believe me the money you earn per hour is definitely more than what you are wasting there waiting and endangering others.

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I was really, really pissed earlier. I wrote a very destructive post, but then again I decided not to put it here, for the reason that it’s still not time to reveal publicly, in case the wrong eyes lay upon it. I’m pretty much better now, thanks to some chatting and self time off.

Well, all I can stay now it just that people can be pretty selfish and demanding even when they know nothing at all… yes when you say nothing at all. Quite the contrary actually, words spoken or written or typed are still damaging.

Anyway, I feel relaxed when I look at the picture below. It works for me, as the sun was setting by the beach and some people were just there. They made some what good silhouette. Hope you find the same peace of mind with this picture. It was taken in Langkawi some time ago.

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I’m still a little irritated with what happened earlier, which was just less than thirty minutes ago. The loud bang shook me a little and is still leaving some side effect in my ears, like ringing in one ear, shit! I was driving to work and like usual I take the tidal flow lane which goes against the traffic. This idiot on the motorcycle decided to be sandwiched between my car and a big bus causing me to lose my right side mirror. Bloody hell! Now I am crippled without the ride side mirror which makes reverse parking, overtaking or even turning right a very hard task.

I’m not saying that motorcyclist are bad or anything but can’t you at least value others life and be considerate. When the freaking bus already occupied the whole of your side of the road then just wait till there’s no car then only overtake the bus, not overtake it while there is traffic coming on the other side and risking other’s life.

I guess nothing really happened as I could see cars after cars sped past that point and are right behind me. So the motorcyclist escaped physical torture but then he is still being cursed by me, for that is the only thing I can do now. And to say the least, I think it was by luck too that nothing happened if not Steed would need to have his body worked on.

Still cursing the bloody blind, inconsiderate motorcyclist, I am left with a side mirror and not a pair. Now I have to check what the damage is, and time is needed to do that, which I am critically deprived of.

I’m not directing this to all motorcyclists but to those idiots and especially the dumb ass just now. I’m sure there are many that are really mannered while on the road, it’s just these rotten eggs that makes everyone else’s life miserable.

Damn I hate reckless idiots, even I was sane enough than to do these when I was younger.

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Why do you have to come and fuck up everything for me? Every time when something good decides to happen on me, you will always come and fuck it up, each and every time.
It’s totally fucked up
Totally fucked up
By YOU

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Sometimes I think you are unreasonable
Sometimes I think you are inconsiderate
Sometimes I think you are impossible

Now I think I’m unreasonable
Now I think I’m inconsiderate
Now I think I’m impossible

Me and you
Table’s turned
Who’s wrong
Who’s right

I’m sad
I’m content
I’m confused
I’m having migraine

I can’t wait to end the week
At least there’s some fun waiting
Krazy moments to cherish
Time off from insanity

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I hate it. I hate it when you can destroy me with such petty things, such petty actions. I hate myself, I hate myself more and more each passing day. Destroying myself in the process. Losing faith, losing hope.

The joy that I so cultivated with such hardship is often destroyed when I could see the light starting to shine dimly and the end of the tunnel. A tunnel that I’m not even sure I’m supposed to be in, let alone travel to the end of it.

In the storm of nature, which I would choose to be at this very moment, not wishing to come back to the calm land of the known. A brutal storm my take me away or may be keep me from coming back to destruction that is counting down day by day.

For the destruction that out weighs the joy that I could cultivate, I feel like is giving up on me. Or may be I’m giving up on myself, or life itself.

Well I will retire here… at this point. And well I won’t be reachable on whatever means of communication for I have opted to deactivate them.

No worries though dear…
Many many hugs dear…
*smile*

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I don’t know how to say it, but I am really frustrated. This week has not really been good to me. Of late I have been making some decisions and I thought after making them, things will be better and I do not have to look back.

However, complications just do not like to leave me alone. I have been bombarded with more decision making situations just this week itself. I may not look like the average think until the brain explodes kind of guy but hey I am thinking. It’s not easy to make decisions ok.

Apart from that, idiots just have to appear out of no where and irritate me. If it was not for the comfort of my friends, colleagues and everyone else including all of you reading, I might have just collapsed. The funny thing is every single thing seems to comfort me, your emails, comments, posts, words, texts, chats, basically everything.

It’s been hard but then again I have decided, yet again, and I know truly that this will be the right decisions since the irritant whirled up a hell inside of me. I am a responsible soul where I am responsible for all the things that I do. And I will still be responsible bear that in mind.

Now I am still furious and flaming at certain things, however I control myself. I do not wish to taint myself with the blood and gore of a momentous impulse. I could never do it if not for all of you, every one of you.

I thank you all from the heart for being here and there for me as your presence made a big difference. I have nothing much to offer but myself and my well wishes to all of you. I wish all of you well in life, studies, exams, relationships, assignments, work and anything that you might be doing.

I know I am like a cheapskate wishing all in one sentence, but it does really come from the heart. I know some are studying and working, some going through hard times, but no matter what I will be here for you when you need me. Be it to share joy, happiness, sorrow or pain.

You can count on me…

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Sometimes we just need a small amount of appreciation just to justify to ourselves that we have done something. Not just something as in simply doing it, but then something worthwhile, something worth our time that we spend.

I know that we earn many things including respect, honour, trust and almost all others including appreciation. I cannot say that you must appreciate me but then I have to earn it.

I may not have done tremendously good or perfectly all the time, I am no god nor am I perfect. I do not seek much nor do I seek your appreciation.

Appreciation… huh…
I will earn my appreciation, but definitely not from you…
And I don’t think I want to either

Does anyone appreciate me???
Do you appreciate me???
Do YOU?
DO YOU?

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I’m really tired
Seriously
I’m dead tired, really I am
I hear words
Conversations
Dead silence
I hate silence
I need silence
I just need sleep
I’m going to bed now
No dreams please!!!

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Click here… to listen to this song
“LeAnn Rimes – Please Remember Me (WTC & Pentagon Tribute)”

I remembered today, 5 years back. I was jobless and I was lazing back home still waiting to be employed. It was not fun to be staying home for 3 months without any income. I had to basically live off my previous pay which funded for my convocation in USM Penang at the same time. I was basically running dry.

It was on this day too that I saw and heard something disturbing. The September 11 incident, the incident that caused 2 massive building called the World Trade Center collapsed to the ground. Many lost their lives that day, more lost relatives and friends.

I still do not understand how life can be just taken like that. Isn’t life worth so much more than that? Even up to today there are still so many incidents and events of war, terrorists, bombings and may be some that I might not even know of. It’s bad enough that we had a few natural calamities that had claims so many lives and we just had to create more live taking situations with war and terrorists. When will we learn?

I am trying everyday if possible to try to do a good deed and I know it’s just a little thing. Trying to make life better for those around me directly and indirectly in hopes that peace and love will prevail everyday. It’s enough to just see a smile and laugh, the feeling inside is exhilarating. I know I am not a saint, but I try very hard in hopes to see a better tomorrow, be it I may be around or not.

Peace and Love
All around the world
Reaches far beyond the horizon
Across the Milky Way
To all
Even extraterrestrials

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